The Story of 2 Singaporean Kids

Recently, i get know of 2 Singaporean kids, Mr E and Miss J. Mr E. is ~22 years old while Miss J. is ~16 years old. Mr E and Miss J are a couple, that moving out from their own family and both rented a room and stayed together. These two kids story really make me "sweat" with the education at SIngapore, especially home education.


The time when Mr E and Miss J rented the room, they are on very tight budget, therefore they request the landlord to accept the half month deposit first while another half will be then paid after 2 wks. The landlord feel pity with them and then agreed to let them delayed the deposit payment. During chit chat, Mr E declared that he is a sales agent and Miss J declared that she is a office girl. But in few days time, the landlord started to realize that they actually are jobless. Even when the landlord ask them to tell the truth but they still insists that they are working. After 1 month, they still every day stay at home- jobless. Besides lying about jobless, they even burn the water kettle, but they did not admit their mistake until they landlord question them. When the landlord catch them second time cooking in the room, they gives a lot of liar that they actually did not cook, only when the landlord found the cooking utensils out, they only admit that they are cooking. But with no guilty or feel shameful.

These two kids attitude is really make me quite shock. The most serious problem that I saw from them is they keep on telling lies. This attitude only make people not trusted to them. Is this their problem or is the way their parents edu them!? The second problem that I saw from this story is hat how come their parents can allowed them to move out from the house when they both are jobless and one of them is actually under age. I really feel scary with this kind of edu result, no matter what parents really play a very important role when come to children education. Don't push this responsibilty to the teachers or children. Children also need to think more mature and also don't ever forget how hard the parents raising them up. Effort that parents spend towards the children normally are unneglectable. Children, do listen to what yor parents teach you, although sometime you might have conflict in term of mindset, but do stay calm and think from parents perspetive. Parents, do patient and listen to the reason why your children think so. Explain to them slowly and with patient, as they are still young and they need guidance. Else when the kids turn to be like above two mentioned kids, not only you will feel the pain, the kids future will be spoilt as well.

2009 Christmas Wedding

After 2 years of ROM, finally we decided to have our customary wedding on a special day - Christmas Day. This date is choosen by my father, but i like this date also. I wish to have a special wedding, not necessary a grand one. Due to this reason, a lots of things are prepared by ourselves.

Let's us show you the wedding invitation card. It is self designed by my hubby. We even self printed the invitation cards and distributed to our friends.

Next, is the table number and the door gift. In conjuction with Christmas Day, we designed the table number card as a Christmas tree shape. For door gift wise, we finally choose to buy the cute paper clips, instead of following others people idea such as cakes or chocolates.

Next is the wedding guest book, we decided to self made one-page wedding guest book. For the pens, we shop around and finally found these 2 fury pens.

Room deco wise, besides the normal wedding deco, we added in the Christmas theme deco as well. ;)

We choose to have a pair of bears to be used for our car deco. Cute?

Normally, bride's gown will be a long one, but mine one is choosen to be a short one. Same with the gown for the wedding dinner. My hubby one, also choose to be a casual one. ;)

For the wedding flow, due to the reason that we hope to have a special wedding dinner, we choose to greet the guest with a love song "Nothing's Gonna Change My Love For You" when we entering the restaurant.

Wedding cake wise, instead of normal wedding cake, we choose to have the Christmas Theme cake. Kids are so interested with the cake deco and the Santa Clause is being "stolen away" right after we finished the ceremony.

Thruthly said, wedding style is not important. Now the wedding ceremony end, but the journey of my hubby and I is just get started. Hopes in the future, we will still happily ever after.