Finally Decision is Made - Hopes is a Good and Correct Decision

After struggle for few days, finally the decision is made. No others choice that can work for dad now, except doing the bypass surgery. Default we think that we might can have chance to use medication for control, but no luck for dad. Cause dad situation is pretty serious now. The only way is to go through open heart surgery. We tried to look for Minimally Invasive Heart Disease Surgery, but unfortunately this type of surgery is yet to be used in Hospital in Malaysia or at least in Penang. Compared with traditional open heart surgery, this type of surgery is less pain, and fast recovery rate. At this moment, i can be said already understand how the traditional surgery work and how suffer will my dad be, but i don't have the gut to tell them the impact after the surgery. There is no choice and no time to wait now, cause the longer time he wait, higher risk will take. And he might not as lucky as Friday whereby able be saved. Operation date is already arranged, it will be on Monday, good luck to my father. Hopefully i won't lost my dad because of this. Pray hard! Can you pray for me as well?

Since after this bad news come to my ear, day passed day seems like is year passed year, waiting for the time to back there to accompany my dad and my mum. I know they both need me right now.. waiting for the time to go back... ...

3.5hr Trekking at MacRitchie Reservoir + HSBC TreeTop Walk

Yesterday morning, we went to explore the nature again. This time, we choose a nearer place which is at MacRitchie Reservoir. As usual, default we plan for a shorter trip. But when we reach there, we decided to go to a further trail. You can choose to walk along the reservoir bank (on the wooden bridge trail) or go for nature trail. We choose to go for the yellow trail - for nature trail. Although not much interesting things to view, but you can away from the city.

Walking, then we decided to go to treetop walk as well. This treetop walk is being built under HSBC. :) Is not a very long trail, but you definitely can have a try if never try this. I tried the same thing in Penang at Bukit Bendera. I feel is more excited and interesting. Not sure how you think?

While on the way back, we passed thru Jelutong Tower, is a high viewing tower. But i am exhausted during that time, so we did not climb up the tower.

Next, we will passed thru golf line. Whereby gold is just besides us. No trespassing is allowed. :) But quite a nice view.

Whole journey took around 3.5hrs. Tiring. ;) Let's see what is our next destination.

A Series of Incidents Since July

Recently, almost every week having different kinds of bad news. From what i remember, the only good news is my youngest cousin at last born already. This is the only good news that i received since July.

First 2 weeks, Wei and i was having down turn with our careers. Wei received unhappy news, while me having arguments with the stakeholders. Feel depressed at that moments, till Wei very worried about me. I dont want Wei to worry about me, i dont want i myself get worse in depression, so, we start to have outdoor activities during weekend, besides cycling or jogging during weekdays.

Next bad news is about my uncle. Actually i am not that close with that uncle, so i actually not feeling down with the incident that happened to that uncle. However, i feel quite angry, cause my mum being blamed because of what happened to that uncle. But it is totally not related to my mum, why should others blame her. She feel sad and crying in the phone. I really feel angry, i want to help her but i am helpless in this issue. But at last, come out with the temporarily solution, but this temporarily solution cost my mum RM6.5K, truthly said, it is not worth to pay for it to help that uncle, but from my mum stand points, i agree that she should pay the money as well. For her happiness.

Besides, my grandma admit to hospital again, due to asthma. There is 1 time whereby her condition so critical until all the family members being called to hospital. Luckily now she is not so critical, although yet to fully recovered, doctor let her out from hospital.

1 of the cousin's kid also admitted to hospital due to inside his ear having additional "meat". But luckily he noticed earlier, else when the "meat" grow deeper into his ear and affecting his brain, he will in big trouble.

Till yesterday afternoon, i received another bad news. This bad news is related to my dad. He being admitted to hospital, and worse thing is that he even admit to ICU during Friday. But now he already out from the ICU room and is at the normal patient room. His condition is not critical, and mum ask me not to rush back now, as i am going to go back next week. I feel so guilty when they cannot reach me when dad admitted to ICU. I feel so sad as i did not accompany them when they are in trouble. Yesterday have a deep discussion with Wei, i dont want to leave them in Penang, and since they dont want to stay at Johor, we plan to let them come to Singapore. Nothing is more important than family. Reduce some saving to bring them over, will feel better. At least can take care of them. Will propose to them next week when i go back. Think need some effort to convince them, cause they actually dislike to burden me. Now, dad is still at hospital, pending for further checking to see what actually is happening. Plan to go to pray for him.

So many bad news since July, and is enough for me already. Hopes everything become fine soon. Hopes all the bad luck go away now. Hopes my family members stay healthy, happy. Hopes Wei continue to be successful. Hopes my career on track as well.

2hr Bukit Timah Hiking

This morning, my hubby and i go to another hill for tracking. This time, we choose Bukit Timah hill hiking. Around 8am, we reach at the foot of the hill. ;) Suprisely, there are quite a number of people coming for hiking. :)

Default, we choose the shortest path, which is the red line path. This path is heading to The Summit, highest point of Bukit Timah, if not mistaken. This path is quite short, takes only 0.5hr, then can finish the tracking. But this tracking, is not really nice to walk, cause it is very steep. Nothing much you can see for this track.

Therefore, we choose to go for further tracks. But we not sure exactly where is the new path heading to. :) This new trail is thru forest. :) We hike up and down the hill, until we reach 1 of the resting hut. During that time, then only we realise that actually we are out of the default track that we planned. We already at Diary Farm, the path is more further compared with the Yellow Path in Bukit Timah. No choice, we have to continue our hiking, but lucky thing is that we have enough water.

At last, we manage to found our way back and the whole journey is completed in 2hr time. :) Nice try this time. Lesson learnt today is, do prepare enough of water when you choose to go hiking. ;)

Yet to finalize next week trip. :) Will update again the blog next week.. stay tune...

3.5hr Leisure Walk

Early this morning, my hubby and I went to a "leisure walk". Departing from Hort Park to Mount Faber (Jewel Box). This route is the 1st time we going there. Around 8am, we reach Hort Park. Over there, we walk around Hort Park, a varietis of gardens over there. :) We spend around an hour at Hort Park.

After that, we approaching Mount Faber thru canopy walk by Alexandra Bridge. This bridge is new modern designed bridge.

After crossing the bridge, we continue the journey thru top tree canopy walk. The bridge height is almost reaching top of the tropical trees. Canopy walk ended at Teluk Belanga Hill.

Next stop is the Henderson Wave (a wooden brige), connecting Teluk Belanga Hill with Mount Faber Hill. Nice design. Heard that some of the pre-wedding photos will be taken over this bridge. :)

The very last stop we stopped over the Jewel Box at Mount Faber. Over here, you can see the cabel car station, which connecting to Harbour Front. Due to hot weather, each of us bought an ice-cream. :) After resting a while, we continue our journey to back to Hort Park. The way back is faster compared with the way coming. Partially due to we did not stop too much for photo taking and way back is slightly easier.

Whole journey took around 3.5hrs. Tiring walk, but quiet enjoyable. :) Mission accomplished successfully. Next week mission, will be decided by hubby. :)

Big Day

Today is the day that will complete change the life of my husband and i. Wah.. sounds serious, right? Officially start from today, my husband and I will change from no-debt to heavy-debt couples. We will go to HDB there and lawyer firm to settle our house procedure. After signed the documents and settle the down payment, no turning back anymore. Sounds sad... right? But this is the stage that every couples will go thru, isn't it? Less than 3 months, we will move into our small warm house, eagerly waiting for that moment. During that time, we will officially have our own family. ;)

Mixed feeling at this moment:
Sad - Heavy Debt
Happy - Have our own house

Restart the Gear

Since few months ago, we already stop preparation on our new house and wedding thing. But these few days, we restart our gear again, to prepare for both of the things, especially on our weddings. We have lots of the things that havent prepare yet for our weddings, now, but now, the guest list already come out. We want something special for our wedding invitation cards, so we plan to have a handmade wedding cards, be more creative, we might have different types of design. Already bought the materials, and with the new bought printers, we will start to create the handmade wedding cards. When done, i will show you all the photos. Next things is the bedroom wedding photos, later, we will go to survey the price. ;) There are few more things that are queuing for preparations: wedding day theme, dresses, car deco, parents flight tickets, accomodation for my parents and friends, flowers, ang pau, bedsheets... ... wah... all of them are related to $$$$$$.. pengsan now.. hahaha

For the house, pending for the 1st appointment. 1st appointment is to go to the office and lawyer firm to settle on the documentation and downpayment... After settle the downpayment.. come to the renovation and furnitures... hahaha.. related to $$$ $$$ again.. predictable i will be very very very POOOOOOOR in the 2nd half of this year.... anyone want to sponsor me..... pleeeeeeeeaaaaaaaassssssssssssssssseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee... ;)